Good News, Great Joy
Jeremy Metze • December 18, 2025
Carlos's Christmas Complaint
For parents and adults, over the last couple of years, I’ve been working on a preaching/teaching style for kids called third person narrative preaching. There’s a whole cast of characters that I’ve developed that I use to teach kids the Word of God. Some of them you’ll meet in this devotional. If your kids or grandkids come to AWANA or Best Week Ever, I’m sure they can fill you in.
Carlos loves Christmas – everything about Christmas. He loves the snow on the ground, decorating the Christmas tree, helping his dad put lights up on the house, his mom’s Christmas cookies (of course), and he loves, I mean really loves, the church kids’ Christmas play.
In last year’s Christmas play, Carlos acted as a shepherd, and he was quite sure that he was the best shepherd ever. He looked “sore afraid” when the angels appeared from off the stage, he traveled with perfect pace across the stage, and he bowed the deepest bow before the baby doll in the manger when he arrived at the other side of the stage. He was confident his previous performance would get him promoted this year.
Carlos was hoping to be Joseph this year, but the odds were against him. Fourth graders rarely got the opportunity to play Joseph, so Carlos thought to himself, “I should at least make Wise Man this year.”
After a few weeks of practicing their songs, it was finally time for the acting roles to be casted. First the angel and shepherd assignments were given out. Carlos was relieved to not his name called for one of those roles. He was ready for the spotlight this year.
His Sunday School teacher then announced some of the big roles.
“Jimothy Timothy Jones, you will be playing Joseph this year.”
Carlos’s friend, Jamie, was pumped, but Carlos was a little bit jealous. Jamie was a shepherd last year too, and Carlos didn’t even think he was as good a shepherd as he was, so how did he get Joseph this year?
“Penelope Pendergrass, you will be playing Mary.”
“Ok”, Carlos thought, “she’s tall for her age and she’s super smart. She can memorize all the lines easily.” Plus, he didn’t want to be a girl character anyway, so that was fine.
“Rita Bonita, you will be the narrator this year.”
Carlos assumed he’d be called next. He stood there with his fingers crossed, whispering to himself “Wise Man carrying gold… wise man carrying gold… wise man carrying gold…”
“Carlos Charles Charleston,” his teacher said. Carlos started to walk forward to proudly accept his role as lead wise man, and his teacher said, “You will be playing ‘Puffy the Well-Fed Sheep’.”
Carlos stopped dead in his tracks. “WHAT?!” he blurted out!
“Is there a problem?” his teacher asked.
“No. No problem here,” Carlos answered, but he was really mad. “A lousy sheep?!” he mumbled under his breath. “Did she even watch my performance last year?!
And, as costumes were passed out, Carlos realized why Puffy was described as a well-fed sheep. There was one sheep costume that was too big for all the Kindergarten and First Graders, so an older kid had to wear it and still stuff it with pillows to get it to fit right.

Carlos put on his costume, stuffed all the pillows into it, and then he waddled out for the dress rehearsal… “This is the worst moment of my life,” he thought to himself. As he stood on stage, he continued to pout and complain. He looked down at the kindergartener sheep next to him, and he said, “My talents are wasted as a sheep.” The kindergartener looked up at him and said, “I like jelly beans,” and he pulled one out of his nose and ate it.
“Ugh,” Carlos sighed, “I’m standing next to the kid who eats jelly beans with boogers.”
Throughout the performance, Carlos stood on stage with the grumpiest look on his face that you’ve ever seen. He didn’t sing the songs. He tried not to look at the other performers. He just stood there – thinking about how unfair it all was and complained to himself over and over.
But, then he heard a line that Rita read as the narrator.
“The King of heaven began life in a feed box, showing us that God loves humble hearts.”
The line swirled around in Carlos’s brain. It bounced from front to back and left to right and up and down. He couldn’t stop thinking about that line.
“The King of heaven began life in a feed box, showing us that God loves humble hearts.”
“I’ve been miserable because I didn’t get what I wanted,” he thought. “I’ve been the opposite of humble, I’ve been proud!”
As Carlos thought about his attitude, his pride began to go away. He decided that he was going to be humble and do the best job playing “Puffy the Well-Fed Sheep” as he possibly could. He was going to sing loudly and would “baaa” with enthusiasm!
The rest of the practice went spendidly, and when the main performance on Sunday morning came around, Carlos acted the best that he possibly could. The whole performance was a blessing to the whole church.
When their performance ended, and they were walking off the stage, Carlos leaned over to his Kindergarten sidekick and said, “Hey buddy, you got anymore of those jelly beans?”
The kid pulled another jelly bean out of his nose and handed it to Carlos, and he popped into his mouth as they walked off together.
It was the worst jelly bean Carlos had ever eaten, but it was the best Christmas play Carlos had ever been in because God changed his attitude.
Boys and girls, Christmas is a season that should remind us to be humble. Being humble means that we don’t act like we’re the most important person in the room, and that we are ready to help other people before ourselves.
Being humble also doesn’t mean we’re bad, but it means that we choose to love others rather than showing off.
Being humble is choosing to be happy with what we have rather than always wanting more.
And Christmas should remind us to be humble because Jesus gave us the greatest example of humility.
Philippians 2:5–7: Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men.
Jesus showed incredible humility when he was born as a helpless baby in a manger (which is what animals ate from), so that he could save us from our sins. He left all the glory of heaven to come down to earth and live a human life, just like you and me, except Jesus never sinned, of course.
This is the greatest example of humility ever, and it reminds us that Christmas is a time for us to remember to be humble and loving, just like Jesus our Savior.
“The King of heaven began life in a feed box, showing us that God loves humble hearts.”
So, how can we have humble hearts this Christmas?
You can think of ways to show love to other people more than to yourself. There are lots of ways to show love at Christmas.
Don’t complain when you don’t get what you want or things don’t go your way. Maybe you don’t get the ultimate present that you wanted so bad, or maybe you think that someone else gets better presents than you. That’s ok. Being humble means that we don’t have to think about ourselves all the time.
Make sure that you take time to thank Jesus for what he has done for us – that He humbled Himself to be born as a baby and laid in an animal feedbox, so that he could live a perfect life on this earth and die as a sacrifice for our sins.
And if you never have, talk to your parents about asking Jesus to save you from your sins. That’s why celebrate Christmas in the first place!
What other ways can you have a humble heart this Christmas?










